"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cute is the norm, not the exception.

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I don't know how you guys see things, but I am a little in awe in how most guys on this board complain or state that most girls out there are not attractive and attractive women are in the minority.

I think that is biggest myth out there.

True, only a small percentage of women have strikingly gorgeous bodies and faces, but if you look at most girls/woman aged 21-30 or so, most (around 60%) have decent enough bodies and facial balance to atleast be considered cute.

What is my point?

If you realize, cute/attractive women are in the majority and not the minority you will feel more worthy and less intimidated.

E.G.

Look at the pics of this bar event. Close to 2/3 of the girls in these pics are cute or better.

http://www.njcoors.com/photos/boathouse08_12_08/index.html


And this is not just the barscene I am talking about..it is like this everywhere....Local mall, beach, urban areas, NYC, guests I see in my hotel checking in.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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devils3777 said:
I don't know how you guys see things, but I am a little in awe in how most guys on this board complain or state that most girls out there are not attractive and attractive women are in the minority.

I think that is biggest myth out there.

True, only a small percentage of women have strikingly gorgeous bodies and faces, but if you look at most girls/woman aged 21-30 or so, most (around 60%) have decent enough bodies and facial balance to atleast be considered cute.

What is my point?

If you realize, cute/attractive women are in the majority and not the minority you will feel more worthy and less intimidated.

E.G.

Look at the pics of this bar event. Close to 2/3 of the girls in these pics are cute or better.

http://www.njcoors.com/photos/boathouse08_12_08/index.html


And this is not just the barscene I am talking about..it is like this everywhere....Local mall, beach, urban areas, NYC, guests I see in my hotel checking in.
But bars are not random cross-sections. Ever go to Walmart or the DMV? 2/3 of the women there are obese, ghetto and/or pushing 5 bastard kids around.

I agree that if you pick the right venues (bars, college, etc) though, there are higher concentrations of hotties there.
 

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wayword said:
But bars are not random cross-sections. Ever go to Walmart or the DMV? 2/3 of the women there are obese, ghetto and/or are pushing 5 bastard kids around.

I agree that if you pick the right venues (bars, college, etc), there are higher concentrations of hotties there, though.

Yeah, but I mentioned in my post NOT JUST BARS.

I realized location has alot to do with it. In rural areas in NJ alot of the women are out of shape and are alot less likely to get orthodontic treatment or cosmetic surgery.

Go walk around certain urban towns in Northern Jersey or New York City, 80% of the women are in shape and are alot more likely to fix any facial aesthetic problems they have.

I personally can't stand fat people, they make me sick. There is really no excuse to be fat these days. People just don't feel like putting the work in and there is always liposuction and weight loss surgery for those who have a hard time losing weight. NO EXCUSE!!
 

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devils3777 said:
Go walk around certain urban towns in Northern Jersey or New York City, 80% of the women are in shape and are alot more likely to fix any facial aesthetic problems they have.
Of course, it's due to competition pressure from a huge surplus of single women there.

For some reason, single women prefer the East, while single men prefer the West. End result is that EC women (theoretically) need to attempt to maintain themselves better in order to get choice dates and mates.
 

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devils3777 said:
I don't know how you guys see things, but I am a little in awe in how most guys on this board complain or state that most girls out there are not attractive and attractive women are in the minority.

I think that is biggest myth out there.

True, only a small percentage of women have strikingly gorgeous bodies and faces, but if you look at most girls/woman aged 21-30 or so, most (around 60%) have decent enough bodies and facial balance to atleast be considered cute.

What is my point?

If you realize, cute/attractive women are in the majority and not the minority you will feel more worthy and less intimidated.

E.G.

Look at the pics of this bar event. Close to 2/3 of the girls in these pics are cute or better.

http://www.njcoors.com/photos/boathouse08_12_08/index.html


And this is not just the barscene I am talking about..it is like this everywhere....Local mall, beach, urban areas, NYC, guests I see in my hotel checking in.
It is no secret that there are places with higher concentrations of hot women than others.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I work at a WalMart - oh boy i see so much booty everyday in there..

Chicks that go to (and even those that work at) WalMart many of them are hot.
 

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I agree completely. I'm in HS though, so it's probably different.

There is no shortage of attractive women, if you have trouble finding one, you have some problems.
 

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The majority of women are cute/attractive? The only revelation here is your low standards. :-/
 

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devils3777 said:
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And this is not just the barscene I am talking about..it is like this everywhere....Local mall, beach, urban areas, NYC, guests I see in my hotel checking in.
Wow talk about an insulated life.
Dude you need to get out more :crackup:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's true many women have cute bodies, but a lot of them turn me off either by the way they talk or the way they dress. So the percentage of women I find attractive personally is pretty low.

I wish I lived from the 30s to the 80s, when the majority of women actually dressed and acted like women....
 
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