"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cute girl in my group of friends

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Eiljwa

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There is the really cute girl in my group of friends, that nearly every guy in the group likes. I have noticed myself becoming very interested in her (don't worry I have never suffered from oneitis), but I am not sure if the feeling is mutual. She looks at me and looks away sometimes, and we make eye contact other times. I have her cell phone number and I tease her sometimes("Neg" if you will), and she usually reacts to that by throwing something at me or giving me a look. One guy in my group of friends went for her for a long time, but ended up getting "burned" because she never liked him and it took him a long time to tell her that he liked her. I am not sure if that means she is not interested in a relationship, or that she is not interested in him. I guess I am just asking how I could take it further with her, without hurting any friendships. I don't really kino her much, so could stepping that up help?

Anyway if you think this is "completely AFC" or anything like that I would appreciate it if you kept the flaming to a minimum, and save some space for the actual DJ's in this place to give me some advice.

Thanks,
Eiljwa
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You gotta squeeze some lemons to make lemonade,just make sure the juice is worth the squeeze! These kind of situations can lead to a ****load of drama and related crap if not act upon carefully.
 
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I would just ask her out. then if your friends get mad at you then they arent good friends. thats what I would do.
 
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Always Assume Attraction (AAA)

What does that mean. She is now attracted to you, irregardless of before. Now that she is attracted to you, that gives you NO reason to hold back from approaching, flirting, teasing and KINO.

Understand? MOVE. The worst that can happen is she'll say no. Read the red linked post down under if you want to read up on AAA.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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