"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cute girl in my group of friends

Eiljwa

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There is the really cute girl in my group of friends, that nearly every guy in the group likes. I have noticed myself becoming very interested in her (don't worry I have never suffered from oneitis), but I am not sure if the feeling is mutual. She looks at me and looks away sometimes, and we make eye contact other times. I have her cell phone number and I tease her sometimes("Neg" if you will), and she usually reacts to that by throwing something at me or giving me a look. One guy in my group of friends went for her for a long time, but ended up getting "burned" because she never liked him and it took him a long time to tell her that he liked her. I am not sure if that means she is not interested in a relationship, or that she is not interested in him. I guess I am just asking how I could take it further with her, without hurting any friendships. I don't really kino her much, so could stepping that up help?

Anyway if you think this is "completely AFC" or anything like that I would appreciate it if you kept the flaming to a minimum, and save some space for the actual DJ's in this place to give me some advice.

Thanks,
Eiljwa
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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GloriouslyInsane

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You gotta squeeze some lemons to make lemonade,just make sure the juice is worth the squeeze! These kind of situations can lead to a ****load of drama and related crap if not act upon carefully.
 

avrilishot

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I would just ask her out. then if your friends get mad at you then they arent good friends. thats what I would do.
 

Docs

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Always Assume Attraction (AAA)

What does that mean. She is now attracted to you, irregardless of before. Now that she is attracted to you, that gives you NO reason to hold back from approaching, flirting, teasing and KINO.

Understand? MOVE. The worst that can happen is she'll say no. Read the red linked post down under if you want to read up on AAA.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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