Cute Casino Pit Boss Asked Me

[DJnoob]

Quick story, i always go to this casino to play..regularly ..for years now. And i know she has a kid and single.

Anyway

One day

She asked me: "So are you married yet:"?

Would this normally mean..SOME interest? This threw me off a bit lol..

Have you guys gotten asked that question and what did that result in?

tnx

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Quick story, i always go to this casino to play..regularly ..for years now. And i know she has a kid and single.

Anyway

One day

She asked me: "So are you married yet:"?

Would this normally mean..SOME interest? This threw me off a bit lol..

Have you guys gotten asked that question and what did that result in?

tnx

Bartenders flirt. Means nothing unless you hit it. That means nothing unless you hit it constantly when you choose to.

 

[RickTheToad]

Quick story, i always go to this casino to play..regularly ..for years now. And i know she has a kid and single.

Anyway

One day

She asked me: "So are you married yet:"?

Would this normally mean..SOME interest? This threw me off a bit lol..

Have you guys gotten asked that question and what did that result in?

tnx

You should had said, why? Are you proposing with a smirk on your face. Need to think one step ahead dude.

 

[2Rocky]

"Nope no woman has offered me a nice enough ring yet. "

 

[DJnoob]

So anyway, i acted on it right after she asked that

me: So what's going on with you? you single, married, or what
chick: not married,

me: What you doing next thursday? (happened to be 4th of july!!! dohh..without me thinking!). Are you free??

chick: "NO" << she said this soo fast. I've never had anyone say this so fast to me lol and say it soooo direct. (i figured it was a **** test)
3 second pause (to see if she counters but no counter offer)

me: So when? ( james bond style tone )

chick: When? ( awkward laugh ) haha.. ( then pauses and continues to work pushing buttons on the screen)
---her coworkers/dealer/friends were next to us and might be able to hear us ---

 

[DJnoob]

I just wana hit it.. I dont want relationship

 

[Robert28]

Bartenders flirt. Means nothing unless you hit it. That means nothing unless you hit it constantly when you choose to.

My patience is too thin and my time too valuable to mess with bartenders and waitresses. My game isn’t setup to pull those types of women anyways (thank God because who the hell wants to date a 30+ bartender or waitress?). I don’t even flirt with them when I’m their presence which I’ve noticed causes them to work me that much harder.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

My patience is too thin and my time too valuable to mess with bartenders and waitresses. My game isn’t setup to pull those types of women anyways (thank God because who the hell wants to date a 30+ bartender or waitress?). I don’t even flirt with them when I’m their presence which I’ve noticed causes them to work me that much harder.

Its good to know what your willing to deal with.

 

[jaymbrs]

So anyway, i acted on it right after she asked that

me: So what's going on with you? you single, married, or what
chick: not married,

me: What you doing next thursday? (happened to be 4th of july!!! dohh..without me thinking!). Are you free??

chick: "NO" << she said this soo fast. I've never had anyone say this so fast to me lol and say it soooo direct. (i figured it was a **** test)
3 second pause (to see if she counters but no counter offer)

me: So when? ( james bond style tone )

chick: When? ( awkward laugh ) haha.. ( then pauses and continues to work pushing buttons on the screen)
---her coworkers/dealer/friends were next to us and might be able to hear us ---

This doesnt sound like she's interested.

 

[Robert28]

This doesnt sound like she's interested.

That’s what I HATE about women that initiate conversations with me with such personal questions if they aren’t interested. I’d rather them just not talk to me at all if they aren’t interested. No I don’t want to be your friend and no I don’t owe you friendliness and small chat. Just leave me alone unless you’re ready to take it past just casual conversation. This thinking drives feminist mad cause they think we owe all women something even if they don’t want to have sex with us. Bs. You don’t have to have sex with me and I don’t have to have any interest in having a meaningless chat with you.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

That’s what I HATE about women that initiate conversations with me with such personal questions if they aren’t interested. I’d rather them just not talk to me at all if they aren’t interested. No I don’t want to be your friends and know I don’t owe you friendliness and small chat. Just leave me alone unless you’re ready to take it last casual conversation. This thinking driving’s feminist mad cause they think we owe all women something even if they don’t want to have sex with us. Bs. You don’t have to have sex with me and I don’t have to have any interest in having a meaningless chat with you.

They have a "job" for you. Even if they not trying to fvck.

 

[Robert28]

They have a "job" for you. Even if they not trying to fvck.

Oh I know. They’re constantly sizing you up for some bull crap you can do for them. Girl that cuts my hair tries to talk to me all the time and I hate it to no end.

 

[Mike32ct]

They have a "job" for you. Even if they not trying to fvck.

Absolutely. Their company is always hiring. They have several openings for "unpaid internships" otherwise known as "friendzone."

The "paid positions" (that include sex such as bf, ONS or FWB) are usually full.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Absolutely. Their company is always hiring. They have several openings for "unpaid internships" otherwise known as "friendzone."

The "paid positions" (that include sex such as bf, ONS or FWB) are usually full.

The thing about the "jobs" women have for you is that once you accept a job you are locked into that role. Advancement is normally impossible.

 

[Robert28]

The thing about the "jobs" women have for you is that once you accept a job you are locked into that role. Advancement is normally impossible.

This is so true. That’s why I preach until I lose my voice to NOT accept friendship with women under ANY circumstances. Or if you somehow get talked into it and have regrets later, just walk away for good. It won’t get you the girl most likely but it will get you out of the friend zone and give you your dignity back. Sure she’s going to badmouth you behind your back for it but who cares?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This is so true. That’s why I preach until I lose my voice to NOT accept friendship with women under ANY circumstances. Or if you somehow get talked into it and have regrets later, just walk away for good. It won’t get you the girl most likely but it will get you out of the friend zone and give you your dignity back. Sure she’s going to badmouth you behind your back for it but who cares?

I think we want them to hear we aint getting stuck in that position.

 

[Robert28]

I think we want them to hear we aint getting stuck in that position.

I used to tell them all sorts of reasons but I’ve learned that telling them doesn’t change your position. You can send just as clear of a message by walking away without saying a word. No slow fade, just walk away. No responding to texts, no responding to emails asking what happened to you. You don’t even have to give her 2 weeks notice like you do with paying jobs.lol

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I used to tell them all sorts of reasons but I’ve learned that telling them doesn’t change your position. You can send just as clear of a message by walking away without saying a word. No slow fade, just walk away. No responding to texts, no responding to emails asking what happened to you. You don’t even have to give her 2 weeks notice like you do with paying jobs.lol

That's how you "tell" them by your actions. They aint listening to your words unless their enchanted.

So your action is she cant get to you. Also now your fvcking and spending time with someone else.