"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cute ca****o get her # and also coffee date

joe45

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heres the deal, at a local shoppers drug mart near my neighbourhood ii notice a cute cute cute girl-shes a cashier-think shes new working there and probably a summer job, not toally sure since i don't go there often. was in there to buy milk.

hey how would i go about getting a girls number and also getting her to go out with me.

hey girls or even guys who got experience with the girl-like random pick up- if u were a cashier and a random customer-guy around ur age starting making random converstion with you and then asked for ur # would u give it out to him.

1.do u think i should go in more often like 4x's go in buy a coke, chips or what not like once a wk or so -at the same time make small talk conversation or

2.do u think i should just do it that one time -make small talk liek hows it goin and then slip her my # and msn addy. which way is better

any of u guys out there done this before -how did it end up-good ,ok, date, no date. any advice on how to get her # and also get like a coffee date with her. tips , suggestions. oh ya her name is Karen-tag says .

also not much time to chit chat since once my items i bought are finished processing and change is given-its ointo the next customer. how can u make the most of it
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'll make this easy.

1. Stop thinking so hard.
2. Stop being scared.
3. Approach and handle your ****.
4. Most important,
hey girls or even guys who got experience with the girl-like random pick up- if u were a cashier and a random customer-guy around ur age starting making random converstion with you and then asked for ur # would u give it out to him.
.. You cant generalize these broads, everyone is an individual, everyone's going to respond differently.
5. Attack that ****, ask for her number, tell her you're interested and then spit that game, it isn't complicated... you just have to do what you do mang there's no way around it.
6. Either you'll get her or you won't either way you're going to have to make the moves, women show interest while men act.
 

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ill make this even EASIER than the guy that just posted

let me share with u wat i still consider my best cold approach/pickup i ever did so far in my life:


my friend (guy) and i walk into a restaurant we never been to before, i see an hb9 who i literally druel over (in my head that is), and i ask her for the menu cuz my friend and i wanted to see wat the prices are......once we saw its too expensive, i gave her the menu back, she said "so, table for 2?" and OUT OF IMPULSE WITHOUT A SECOND THOUGHT i just blurted "nahh we decided not to eat here, but hey give me your #"

ui said it with confidence AND the pressumption that shed say yes, as if i expected her to say yes. I also just went for it and did it cuz i knew id never see her again. SHE GAVE ME THE DAMN #....then we introduced ourselves real quick and asid goodbye

note, i was dressed like shyt aka in sweats and an ugly jacket, didnt matter, she must LOVED that approach or somethin, cuz i texted and called her the next day and we had a great date that ended in making out

unfortunately, i didnt kno sosuave back then and i didnt escalate properly and ended up never ****in her, but still.......THERES UR ANSWER ON WAT TO DO TO THAT CASHIER!
 
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