"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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cute ca****o get her # and also coffee date

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heres the deal, at a local shoppers drug mart near my neighbourhood ii notice a cute cute cute girl-shes a cashier-think shes new working there and probably a summer job, not toally sure since i don't go there often. was in there to buy milk.

hey how would i go about getting a girls number and also getting her to go out with me.

hey girls or even guys who got experience with the girl-like random pick up- if u were a cashier and a random customer-guy around ur age starting making random converstion with you and then asked for ur # would u give it out to him.

1.do u think i should go in more often like 4x's go in buy a coke, chips or what not like once a wk or so -at the same time make small talk conversation or

2.do u think i should just do it that one time -make small talk liek hows it goin and then slip her my # and msn addy. which way is better

any of u guys out there done this before -how did it end up-good ,ok, date, no date. any advice on how to get her # and also get like a coffee date with her. tips , suggestions. oh ya her name is Karen-tag says .

also not much time to chit chat since once my items i bought are finished processing and change is given-its ointo the next customer. how can u make the most of it
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'll make this easy.

1. Stop thinking so hard.
2. Stop being scared.
3. Approach and handle your ****.
4. Most important,
hey girls or even guys who got experience with the girl-like random pick up- if u were a cashier and a random customer-guy around ur age starting making random converstion with you and then asked for ur # would u give it out to him.
.. You cant generalize these broads, everyone is an individual, everyone's going to respond differently.
5. Attack that ****, ask for her number, tell her you're interested and then spit that game, it isn't complicated... you just have to do what you do mang there's no way around it.
6. Either you'll get her or you won't either way you're going to have to make the moves, women show interest while men act.
 

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ill make this even EASIER than the guy that just posted

let me share with u wat i still consider my best cold approach/pickup i ever did so far in my life:


my friend (guy) and i walk into a restaurant we never been to before, i see an hb9 who i literally druel over (in my head that is), and i ask her for the menu cuz my friend and i wanted to see wat the prices are......once we saw its too expensive, i gave her the menu back, she said "so, table for 2?" and OUT OF IMPULSE WITHOUT A SECOND THOUGHT i just blurted "nahh we decided not to eat here, but hey give me your #"

ui said it with confidence AND the pressumption that shed say yes, as if i expected her to say yes. I also just went for it and did it cuz i knew id never see her again. SHE GAVE ME THE DAMN #....then we introduced ourselves real quick and asid goodbye

note, i was dressed like shyt aka in sweats and an ugly jacket, didnt matter, she must LOVED that approach or somethin, cuz i texted and called her the next day and we had a great date that ended in making out

unfortunately, i didnt kno sosuave back then and i didnt escalate properly and ended up never ****in her, but still.......THERES UR ANSWER ON WAT TO DO TO THAT CASHIER!
 
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