"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Cute, adorable, sweet, and gorgeous.

pvf94

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Good or bad news when coming from a girl you just went on a date with?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No, it was an internet meetup type thing. I had never meet her before, and we both seemed timid.

Talked about it on msn though, and admitted to it and agreed next time would be better, and that she def wants to get together again.
 

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How could that be bad news? Would you rather she be ugly, b!tchy and stuck-up?

You're thinking too hard man. I swear, these newbies...
 

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She was saying that to me, I dunno the first thing I think of when I hear cute sweet and adorable is a baby or a 2yr old.

That's why I asked.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well maybe she finds you have a boyish charm about you.

Doesn't mean she's going to friendzone you or anything as believe it or not there are a lot of chicks out there that look for the boyish quality in guys so they can mother them ie care for them.

That or its simply the words this particular chick uses when she's into someone.

Like Ace of Flames said you're thinking too much.

Until she gives you the LJBF's speech you are still in the game my brother.
 

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KontrollerX said:
Well maybe she finds you have a boyish charm about you.

Doesn't mean she's going to friendzone you or anything as believe it or not there are a lot of chicks out there that look for the boyish quality in guys so they can mother them ie care for them.

That or its simply the words this particular chick uses when she's into someone.

Like Ace of Flames said you're thinking too much.

Until she gives you the LJBF's speech you are still in the game my brother.
Thanks for the clarification, and the kind response. :D
 

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The only good one of the bunch is gorgeous

The rest are used to describe well.......AFC's
 

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all good - whether you are AFC, An AFC pretending to be DJ, or a real man will remain to be seen for her still, as it was just a first date. But she obviously likes you. Remember, we girls like adjectives LOL
 

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LovelyLady said:
all good - whether you are AFC, An AFC pretending to be DJ, or a real man will remain to be seen for her still, as it was just a first date. But she obviously likes you. Remember, we girls like adjectives LOL

haha ok cool:crazy:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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