Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Cut worthy?

Lifeforce

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I have grown a little since I started bb and now I feel I have a little more fat than before. Like 2 cm if I pinch my stomage next to the belly button, 1.2 cm if I pinch just over my nipple, like 0.5 cm on my quadriceps just over vastus medialis and next to rectus femoris, 1.3-1.5 cm in the middle of my back at my erector spinae, arond 1.6 cm between my obliques and serratus anterior and 0.5 behind my triceps. Sorry if this is a little confusing.

You can see some images of me at my lifting journal posted in this forum, they are not the best pictures but they give a hint.

Do you think I am cut worthy yet or should I continue to add mass? I have been thinking about it for a while. Give me some advice. My BF% is around 10.5 %
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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D'light

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if it were me, id keep bulking. Im 6'1'' 175 lbs. Im not going to stop bulking till i hit 190...then ill lose the fat, just in time for next spring i imagine!
 

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thanks for the response. Then It's settled, I'll bulk through winter and start cutting somewhere in the spring so I look lean to the summer and the beach... :) I'm gonna kill this summer!
 

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Winters coming. Bulk Bulk Bulk until you look slightly bigger than you want to look and then cut. You're then left with a slightly fuller, and more ripped look than you would have had before.
 

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yep, bulk.... and if your body fat is 10.5% you must be near cut already cause that is low :S, your prob more than that i'm guessing
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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