"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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a real simple question:

in order to get a ripped 6 pack, do you do HEAVY and low reps (holding weights and decline crunch)?? or is it LIGHT and high reps (regular floor crunches)??

i've been doing the ladder all the time and all im getting is a flat stomach. hardly any lines. so im thinking of swtiching to high intensity low reps, similar to chest workouts. just wanna know what you guys think.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In my own experience, high intensity and low reps is probably the best way of building muscle period. Make every rep count and take each one slowly.

In terms of my abs, I only do 10 reps and 5 sets per exercise. The one exercise that I've found to yield the best results is this:

http://www.bestabs.com/Resources/Exercises/ExerciseDetails.aspx?region=2&exercise=3

(Try it on a flat bench to begin with if this is too intense)

I have a great looking six-pack showing through now, but still need to drop a bit of bodyfat before they look their best. As AFK said, you will only see the full definition when you are down to 10% bodyfat or less.
 

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...and also make sure you are loading your body with protein. Like all muscles, your abs need protein to grow.
 

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Please search before asking questions that have been answered several hundred times before.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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