"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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a real simple question:

in order to get a ripped 6 pack, do you do HEAVY and low reps (holding weights and decline crunch)?? or is it LIGHT and high reps (regular floor crunches)??

i've been doing the ladder all the time and all im getting is a flat stomach. hardly any lines. so im thinking of swtiching to high intensity low reps, similar to chest workouts. just wanna know what you guys think.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In my own experience, high intensity and low reps is probably the best way of building muscle period. Make every rep count and take each one slowly.

In terms of my abs, I only do 10 reps and 5 sets per exercise. The one exercise that I've found to yield the best results is this:

http://www.bestabs.com/Resources/Exercises/ExerciseDetails.aspx?region=2&exercise=3

(Try it on a flat bench to begin with if this is too intense)

I have a great looking six-pack showing through now, but still need to drop a bit of bodyfat before they look their best. As AFK said, you will only see the full definition when you are down to 10% bodyfat or less.
 

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...and also make sure you are loading your body with protein. Like all muscles, your abs need protein to grow.
 

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Please search before asking questions that have been answered several hundred times before.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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