Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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a real simple question:

in order to get a ripped 6 pack, do you do HEAVY and low reps (holding weights and decline crunch)?? or is it LIGHT and high reps (regular floor crunches)??

i've been doing the ladder all the time and all im getting is a flat stomach. hardly any lines. so im thinking of swtiching to high intensity low reps, similar to chest workouts. just wanna know what you guys think.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In my own experience, high intensity and low reps is probably the best way of building muscle period. Make every rep count and take each one slowly.

In terms of my abs, I only do 10 reps and 5 sets per exercise. The one exercise that I've found to yield the best results is this:

http://www.bestabs.com/Resources/Exercises/ExerciseDetails.aspx?region=2&exercise=3

(Try it on a flat bench to begin with if this is too intense)

I have a great looking six-pack showing through now, but still need to drop a bit of bodyfat before they look their best. As AFK said, you will only see the full definition when you are down to 10% bodyfat or less.
 

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...and also make sure you are loading your body with protein. Like all muscles, your abs need protein to grow.
 

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Please search before asking questions that have been answered several hundred times before.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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