"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Custody Battle Advice Needed

Young OG

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If all goes okay, you may reach the end of the beginning soon. And your daughter will benefit. Without court orders a lot of crap can go sideways with your daughter being used as the rope in a tug of war.

Make sure that your daughter is with you when your STBX gets the offer. And watch carefully what she does with your daughter.
Thanks. They are going to have her served on a monday after I pick my kid up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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parkthebus

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I think sharing a room with a baby, potentially two, is something you can use for leverage. You can't her your daughter being woken up every other night and then going to school shattered. What's the bf like?
 

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Its funny how she said I wasn't going to have her during the week anymore but then changed her mind in one day. wtf
She probably found it inconvenient to actually have your daughter M-F so she changed her mind.

Using your child to as a tool to get back at someone... gotta love it.

Like BeExcellent said, keep a log of this. Definitely paints her in a bad light.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Young OG

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What's the bf like?
He is a big loser. He is one of the guys she was cheating on me with. He has no car. He drives her truck and doesn't let her drive it. He used to be jacked but stopped lifting after he got her. Now he's fat. He also is covered with tattoos, even on his neck. LOL.
 

Young OG

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It took longer then I had hoped, but she was finally served today. She was pretty mad at first. She even went as far as saying she was going to tell the judge I molest our daughter lol. Now, her bi polar self has calmed down and claims she will sign it. I won't believe that until its signed and turned into my lawyer.
 

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Might want to start recording future conversations with her
It was a text. I didn't delete it. I'm pretty sure she will sign it. She wouldn't get very far with that lie in court. My lawyer would rip her apart. He can also play the methadone clinic card in court if needed.
 

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Be certain you put that false accusation in to your daily diary. This is exactly why you should keep one. You might need it later on. You are doing the right thing. Hang in there.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It took longer then I had hoped, but she was finally served today. She was pretty mad at first. She even went as far as saying she was going to tell the judge I molest our daughter lol. Now, her bi polar self has calmed down and claims she will sign it. I won't believe that until its signed and turned into my lawyer.
Take a picture of that text in case it gets deleted
 
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