Thanks. They are going to have her served on a monday after I pick my kid up.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Custody Battle Advice Needed
- Thread starter Young OG
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Thanks for being a good dad OG, you are making society a better place.
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I think sharing a room with a baby, potentially two, is something you can use for leverage. You can't her your daughter being woken up every other night and then going to school shattered. What's the bf like?
She probably found it inconvenient to actually have your daughter M-F so she changed her mind.
Using your child to as a tool to get back at someone... gotta love it.
Like BeExcellent said, keep a log of this. Definitely paints her in a bad light.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
He is a big loser. He is one of the guys she was cheating on me with. He has no car. He drives her truck and doesn't let her drive it. He used to be jacked but stopped lifting after he got her. Now he's fat. He also is covered with tattoos, even on his neck. LOL.
It took longer then I had hoped, but she was finally served today. She was pretty mad at first. She even went as far as saying she was going to tell the judge I molest our daughter lol. Now, her bi polar self has calmed down and claims she will sign it. I won't believe that until its signed and turned into my lawyer.
Might want to start recording future conversations with her
It was a text. I didn't delete it. I'm pretty sure she will sign it. She wouldn't get very far with that lie in court. My lawyer would rip her apart. He can also play the methadone clinic card in court if needed.
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Be certain you put that false accusation in to your daily diary. This is exactly why you should keep one. You might need it later on. You are doing the right thing. Hang in there.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Take a picture of that text in case it gets deleted