"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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curse loud nightclubs!!

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out for a friends birthday this weekend, got chatting to a girl that was there a bit, then at the end she goes,

"I've got to go now.... oh, you live around here don't you? I'll probably see you around"
me: "yeah. Here, why don't you give me your number, we can meet up sometime?"

she takes my phone and puts her number in, and tries to tell me something, I can't hear, she tries to tell me again, I still can't hear it, (the song has got to a louder bit) so I just go "yeah, ok sure" and she leaves..

It's only then I realise I can't remember for the life of me what her name is.. or if I told her mine, I think I did but I can't remember..

plus the numbers a landline so I can't even send her a text message hoping she replies with her name at the bottom..

I guess if I did some detective work I could find out, she was a friend of a friend of a friend type thing.. but my mate said he thought he had heard one of her friends say something about her having a boyfriend anyway when he had asked about her..

just have to get some more numbers this weekend, I'm now finding number closing quite easy, but approaching is still a bit of a sticking point. once the convos going I'm fine..

provided I can hear what she's saying... bloody nightclubs..

ok, rant over.. bed time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She didn't put her name in your phone with the number?
 

MrNiceGuy

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nope, typed the number into the display, then gave it back to me, I looked saw that she'd put a number in then tried to listen to what she was saying, it was only after she left and I hit the "save" buttonm that it prompted me for a name, and I thought.. bollocks..

anyway, I was quite drunk anyway, I can't remember if I even liked her that much so I doubt it would have translated into a date anyway, just have to go find some more women on saturday.. weathers getting warmer which is good..
 

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you miss the whole point. it's loud so you can do the take away manuver. get her out of that environment where you can chat.

even if it's going outside...if she follows you then your more than likely in there.

at my age we do the take away to other environments like late night coffee/eating houses and then to my house for further deserts...or that was how it used to be last time I looked.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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