"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Current A.W pushing for commitment

DreamAgain

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Dump her, but I doubt you will do it unless you have a hotter upgrade on standby.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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derby1

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If you are worried about your girls social media followers you are exhibiting small d*ck energy.

Never been afraid to go against the grain. I feel strongly about this.
Then a small **** I have. I am on my way to becoming a reasonably well accomplished male, Im not going to sit in bed after a 10 hour shift of dealing with my missus & coffee, and her phone is there constantly vibrating with "likes" and "Dm's" whilst we talk about/plan life. You may tolerate it , I dont,

Just because you take women for chicken drumsticks, I dont I do quality stuff, she doesnt get to cherry pick
 

bat soup

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one of my plates wants commitment, shes quite good company, however very good at hiding the fact she likes to know shes desired by strangers.(which to me is unattractive)

shes also Hot & childless(im a dad)

Trouble is she has about 2500 men on her social media, 170 likes on her pics, posts thirst trap meme's for beta males. "hot chocolate and elf movie are my kind of date night" that sort of BS.

Shes manager of a top local jewellery company, aswell you'd think shed be past this...

shes been nothing but kind to me, so i dont want to purposely hurt her.

Im not happy going official with an AW. i did it before and she ended up insufferable and creepy tbh, needing blokes under rocks to tell her shes pretty,

I've got some ideas how to proceed.Anyone chuck some other ideas? leading statements ?
She wants it, you don't. The answer is self explanatory.
 
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