Curious opinion on everyone has to do with online dating.

[thelonewolflegend]

How many messages and days do you usually go back and forth with someone before you ask them out on a date on average jw?

 

[MtnMan]

i got back and fourth a couple times, then say something like "you seem cool, we should grab drinks, send me a text at xxx-xxx-xxxx and ill figure something out"

 

[Willard]

Usually 2 or 3, then I say lets have a chat sometime, 9 out of 10 times I get the number, If they say anything else but here's my number, I'll give them mine and usually they will give me theirs and sometimes they will text me theirs. After I get the number I text them Hi it's "my Name" save my number, then I'll text them a couple of days later to make plans. I'm big into online dating and pretty successful at it.

 

[Don-Kong]

I do loads before there's mention of numbers. I'm unavailable, busy, in demand. I don't need her number, sh1t she should be asking me. That's what has happened on a few occasions. I think it's best not to rush it. Let them feel insecure, let them think you are in demand.

The vast majority flake. It becomes REAL when you have to meet someone,that's been my short experience with it. I prefer the old Skool meet and seduce.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

One Valentine's Day, I wrote a girl at random that I found attractive. I sent her ONE message - something along the lines of "hey, you're single and I'm single and it's Valentine's Day, we should go out" - and in her first message back she agreed to it. My point? Girls are on their to GO OUT ON DATES, so it doesn't really have to take all that long...

 

[Albatross953]

Depends on the woman, but I do move fast.

On the other hand, I never write women first. I screen the ones that message me. I'd like to say I'm doing anti dumps method, but I'm just lazy and I seem to care less and less about online women.

 

[GS750]

Depends on the woman, but I do move fast.

On the other hand, I never write women first. I screen the ones that message me. I'd like to say I'm doing anti dumps method, but I'm just lazy and I seem to care less and less about online women.

This is what I do. I never send messages. I get an average of 3 or 4 a week. But usually only 1/2 of them I find attractive. Then I go back and forth with 3-4 messages. Then I suggest talking on the phone and they give me the number. A girl I'm talking to right now said "oh...I literally broke my phone today so I have to get a new one". I figured that was probably bullsh*t, but I gave her my number anyway. She texted me the next day. So my answer is 3-4 messages before you move to the next step. She's likely communicating with a few other dudes so you gotta strike while the iron is hot.