thelonewolflegend
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How many messages and days do you usually go back and forth with someone before you ask them out on a date on average jw?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Curious opinion on everyone has to do with online dating.
- Thread starter thelonewolflegend
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Usually 2 or 3, then I say lets have a chat sometime, 9 out of 10 times I get the number, If they say anything else but here's my number, I'll give them mine and usually they will give me theirs and sometimes they will text me theirs. After I get the number I text them Hi it's "my Name" save my number, then I'll text them a couple of days later to make plans. I'm big into online dating and pretty successful at it.
I do loads before there's mention of numbers. I'm unavailable, busy, in demand. I don't need her number, sh1t she should be asking me. That's what has happened on a few occasions. I think it's best not to rush it. Let them feel insecure, let them think you are in demand.
The vast majority flake. It becomes REAL when you have to meet someone,that's been my short experience with it. I prefer the old Skool meet and seduce.
The vast majority flake. It becomes REAL when you have to meet someone,that's been my short experience with it. I prefer the old Skool meet and seduce.
Harry Wilmington
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One Valentine's Day, I wrote a girl at random that I found attractive. I sent her ONE message - something along the lines of "hey, you're single and I'm single and it's Valentine's Day, we should go out" - and in her first message back she agreed to it. My point? Girls are on their to GO OUT ON DATES, so it doesn't really have to take all that long...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Albatross953
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Depends on the woman, but I do move fast.
On the other hand, I never write women first. I screen the ones that message me. I'd like to say I'm doing anti dumps method, but I'm just lazy and I seem to care less and less about online women.
On the other hand, I never write women first. I screen the ones that message me. I'd like to say I'm doing anti dumps method, but I'm just lazy and I seem to care less and less about online women.
GS750
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This is what I do. I never send messages. I get an average of 3 or 4 a week. But usually only 1/2 of them I find attractive. Then I go back and forth with 3-4 messages. Then I suggest talking on the phone and they give me the number. A girl I'm talking to right now said "oh...I literally broke my phone today so I have to get a new one". I figured that was probably bullsh*t, but I gave her my number anyway. She texted me the next day. So my answer is 3-4 messages before you move to the next step. She's likely communicating with a few other dudes so you gotta strike while the iron is hot.Albatross953 said: