"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Curing oneitis for a best friend...

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Hello, I'd appreciate any help here possible. For the past few months, I've had oneitis for my best female friend, harboring hopes that something could possibly work out between us. I've recently conceded to the fact that it will never work, and I'd love to get rid of these feelings. Any advice?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Check out the bible man, also you should search articles on pedastaling and oneitus, no ones case of oneitus or pedastaling is different. Its got nothing to do with the chick either, we've all been there, you gotta realize the only way you can change it is by changing yourself. Read Read Read! good luck
 
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Everytime you think about her in a romantic way, I want you to say NO to yourself. The next step after that is to go out and find different girls, take up some hobbies, get a job, hang out with your good friends (other than her). Simply do anything to avoid from thoughts of her interferring with your life. You can still talk to her and be friendly, but you need to get over her completly before you do.

--Mission
 
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