"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Curing oneitis for a best friend...

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Hello, I'd appreciate any help here possible. For the past few months, I've had oneitis for my best female friend, harboring hopes that something could possibly work out between us. I've recently conceded to the fact that it will never work, and I'd love to get rid of these feelings. Any advice?

Thanks in advance.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Check out the bible man, also you should search articles on pedastaling and oneitus, no ones case of oneitus or pedastaling is different. Its got nothing to do with the chick either, we've all been there, you gotta realize the only way you can change it is by changing yourself. Read Read Read! good luck
 
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Everytime you think about her in a romantic way, I want you to say NO to yourself. The next step after that is to go out and find different girls, take up some hobbies, get a job, hang out with your good friends (other than her). Simply do anything to avoid from thoughts of her interferring with your life. You can still talk to her and be friendly, but you need to get over her completly before you do.

--Mission
 
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