"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If your young, inexperienced and unfit then I suggest that before you even touch your first piece of metal you work calisthenetics. This will have the following advantages:

-You will get significantly stronger

-You will get significantly more muscular

-You will learn how to "do" exercise, your motoric center will adapt to the new movements

-You will learn what form means, without the risk of busting your back or having to call someone else to pull weight off your chest

-Your muscles will also gain strength endurance, which is a quality required for lifting weight later on

You should do pushups, squats and pullups, be sure to pay attention to moving symetrically.

Remember that you now need more food and water than before, so eat eat eat. Later when you move out of your home you will see what a help it is to have someone else do the cooking and grocerie shopping.
 
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