"Cumshot Selfies" are now a thing apparently?? WTF???

[mrgoodstuff]

If you tie up your self-esteem to money you're screwed if your bank account dries out. If you tie up your self-esteem on something internal, like knowing you can make things happen you become independent from the external world for happiness.

A woman who doesn't care unless you're loaded is a shallow, selfish and spoiled gold digger who WILL disrespect you. Don't you want a woman who likes YOU and not your bank account? Come on man, raise your standards.

Gold digger is NEVER worth it. She's digging you financially, emotionally, physically and situationally. They will feed off your "image" and improve theirs at your expense. There is no good reason to do it unless you are paying for a "show" that brings you money. ALA playboy.

You can have money and easily be regarded as a scumbag, money does not guarantee status. Status is gained by socializing and showing personal strengths, not financial strength.

@devilkingx2 That's a risk. Better just let the past be past about that, it might work and there's a great chance it might backfire.

You can be a scumbag have have "status", all depends upon the circles. Just find you a decent lady or ladies. Stop worrying about gaining valuation through money. An easy thing to do is to just deal with females in the similar financial circle as you who had to earn their own money. They will tend to respect a man more who had to earn it himself.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

No, I don't think I'd let anyone walk all over me. I wouldn't pay her any more than I'd pay a prostitute. But I think I need to have money in order to have status. Otherwise, why would they even care who I am?

I asked you to start seeking women who don't care about those things. They exist and you will be happier with them. They also might be less fashion minded and a little heavier. But a more wholesome woman to have a LTR with.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I asked you to start seeking women who don't care about those things. They exist and you will be happier with them. They also might be less fashion minded and a little heavier. But a more wholesome woman to have a LTR with.

In other words, I'm not attractive enough on my own to get a really hot girl without money.

I don't want to **** fat girls.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

In other words, I'm not attractive enough on my own to get a really hot girl without money.

I don't want to **** fat girls.

That's BS man. Hows your body? Can you see your abs? The girl doesn't have to be fat. But it's definitely not going to be a "skinny h0e" that's perfectly socially calibrated and getting all her fill on the various social media's, texting, trips and real life. You will be complaining again unless you take on a player lifestyle and juggle those. There are other women who are not in the game and chose not to be. They are going to be less fashion conscious, more nerdier, MORE HELPFUL and actually have their own money.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

That's BS man. Hows your body? Can you see your abs? The girl doesn't have to be fat. But it's definitely not going to be a "skinny h0e" that's perfectly socially calibrated and getting all her fill on the various social media's, texting, trips and real life. You will be complaining again unless you take on a player lifestyle and juggle those. There are other women who are not in the game and chose not to be. They are going to be less fashion conscious, more nerdier, MORE HELPFUL and actually have their own money.

Yes, I can see my abs, and as soon as I get over this bronchitis, I'm going to start lifting again.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

If you tie up your self-esteem to money you're screwed if your bank account dries out. If you tie up your self-esteem on something internal, like knowing you can make things happen you become independent from the external world for happiness.

A woman who doesn't care unless you're loaded is a shallow, selfish and spoiled gold digger who WILL disrespect you. Don't you want a woman who likes YOU and not your bank account? Come on man, raise your standards.

You can have money and easily be regarded as a scumbag, money does not guarantee status. Status is gained by socializing and showing personal strengths, not financial strength.

@devilkingx2 That's a risk. Better just let the past be past about that, it might work and there's a great chance it might backfire.

If I could attract women by being myself, I wouldn't be on this forum in the first place. Plus, I don't know what there is to like about me.

Looks, Money, Status. I need one or more of these things to be in the game. I currently have none.

And what if starting a business is part of who I am? Nobody else started it for me. It was a lot of work.

There seems to be nothing I can do to get girls to respect me and I don't know why that is.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I think he should just go with

"what were you in for?"
"you don't even want to know"

It's not that easy because of Google. I have to change my name in 2022.

 

[devilkingx2]

Should a "physical alpha" Navy Seal with a 100 IQ be the ALPHA in a group of nuclear scientists?

depends on what they're doing, if they're hanging out in a bar then yeah probably. but if they're working on cold fusion then definitely not.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

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It's not that easy because of Google. I have to change my name in 2022.

depends on what they're doing, if they're hanging out in a bar then yeah probably. but if they're working on cold fusion then definitely not.

Your right!

 

[devilkingx2]

It's not that easy because of Google. I have to change my name in 2022.

hope she doesn't google you, or just say that it's a different guy (change your appearance majorly, grow a beard or shave it and dye your hair if you have to)

 

[SuckItUp]

I've been through more **** than any guy I know. I know a few local people from bars, but I don't really know their names or hang out with them.

The only guys I hang out with are ones that are working for me. I may have a conservation every few weeks, but nothing major.

I just did 4 years in prison. I definitely like my space to myself.

We've all been through ****, and while it sounds like you've gotten the **** end of the stick, part of being a leader is understanding that each person has their own struggle that may be less difficult or more difficult than your own, but that to them their struggle seem like trying climb Everest without an oxygen mask.

A big part of the journey is understanding and projecting you are no better or worse than anyone else. If you can interact with people as equals they will respect you and like you.

I,too, enjoy my space, but I realize that isolating isn't going to bring women to my door.

I'd recommend that you go out talk to people quash your judgements about them based on how they look, their education, etc. and just listen to what they have to say.

 

[btownbuck2012]

I just did 4 years in prison. I definitely like my space to myself.

What were you in prison for...?

 

[marmel75]

If I could attract women by being myself, I wouldn't be on this forum in the first place. Plus, I don't know what there is to like about me.

Looks, Money, Status. I need one or more of these things to be in the game. I currently have none.

And what if starting a business is part of who I am? Nobody else started it for me. It was a lot of work.

There seems to be nothing I can do to get girls to respect me and I don't know why that is.

You can start by respecting yourself first. People who don't know you, always will believe what you show them about yourself.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

What were you in prison for...?

Cyberstalking

 

[RichardTheFrog]

You can start by respecting yourself first. People who don't know you, always will believe what you show them about yourself.

That all sounds good in theory, but "respecting myself" isn't going to get those girls back to my house on a Friday night. He'll, I don't even go out on Fridays anymore. Too crowded.

 

[Serenity]

If I could attract women by being myself, I wouldn't be on this forum in the first place. Plus, I don't know what there is to like about me.

Looks, Money, Status. I need one or more of these things to be in the game. I currently have none.

And what if starting a business is part of who I am? Nobody else started it for me. It was a lot of work.

There seems to be nothing I can do to get girls to respect me and I don't know why that is.

First of all some fucking optimism would go a long way. I mean if you want to believe you must have looks, money and status to even attract a woman then please do go the hard way. If you want to deny, deny and deny that it's possible for you to be attractive now, then go ahead and continue ignoring what I tell you.

I'm really trying to help you here, I want you to fuck hot women. But you don't seem to want the same. You're just making up endless rationalizations and bullshit excuses for why you can't fuck hot women right now.

Enjoy your celibacy, you can't be helped.

 

[marmel75]

That all sounds good in theory, but "respecting myself" isn't going to get those girls back to my house on a Friday night. He'll, I don't even go out on Fridays anymore. Too crowded.

Neither is feeling sorry for yourself and crying yourself to sleep at night, but you have no problem doing that.