"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cultural Differences

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Well some of you may have read my other posts, and may know that I've now moved on, and I'm targeting a Korean chick(I'm Filipino By The Way;and so was the past chick) now I need an answer to this question.

Does culture affect the power of the techniques(Kino/Negs/Eye Contact etc.) you use on chicks?

Well cause the neg hits I give to my fellow friends[and the past chick(before I got my rep smudged)] because we're Filipino, so I was wondering if culture affects the impact of the techs. I'm worried about the Language barriers and stuff, I may also end up looking like a creep once again if I give too much neg hits.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MAYBE personal space/intimate zone MAYBE... but that sort of stuff doesn't usually apply... Is Korea a busy country like China? If it is then she will have a tighter personal space/intimate zone which means you can get closer without her feeling uncomfortable... although I find that this sort of thing doesn't affect my game...
 

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Never effected my game before. How they act depends more on what culture they currently live in than their original culture. And that should be the same culture as you in most circumstances, therefore there shouldn't be a problem.
 

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So I just have to be careful with the Kino cause it might "invade" her personal space. Well I have a way to sneak into that space, since she is my bus mate after all. Anything else I should worry about? Or should I just use my Filipino tactics with her?

(I cause I overdid eye contact it with another Korean once, that other chick now thinks I'm some sort of psycho)
 

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you can overdo kino and eyecontact with any girl mate, culture is generally irrelivant.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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alright thanks, hopefully I can get this one. oh could you check my conversation opener?

First I ride the bus right, if she's there first, I'm gonna sit right next to her and ask her something, like "Hey, your name is(name of chick) right, your using a RAZR right? Do you know how to send mp3's from your computer directly to your fone?(Hey it's the only thing I can think of to open a topic) after that, I can just branch out randomly
 

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Sounds good, what would be better is if you ask her what she thinks of the razr and if she would recomment it. That way your asking her opinion on something and it'll build a stronger connectio nbetween you two in her mind.
 

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Well I already have the razr so I crossed that one out, but I really dont know how to send files from my pc to the razr. So asking her that would not only serve as rapport but it would help me send some of my KISS mp3's to my fone.
 
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