"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cultural Differences

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Well some of you may have read my other posts, and may know that I've now moved on, and I'm targeting a Korean chick(I'm Filipino By The Way;and so was the past chick) now I need an answer to this question.

Does culture affect the power of the techniques(Kino/Negs/Eye Contact etc.) you use on chicks?

Well cause the neg hits I give to my fellow friends[and the past chick(before I got my rep smudged)] because we're Filipino, so I was wondering if culture affects the impact of the techs. I'm worried about the Language barriers and stuff, I may also end up looking like a creep once again if I give too much neg hits.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MAYBE personal space/intimate zone MAYBE... but that sort of stuff doesn't usually apply... Is Korea a busy country like China? If it is then she will have a tighter personal space/intimate zone which means you can get closer without her feeling uncomfortable... although I find that this sort of thing doesn't affect my game...
 

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Never effected my game before. How they act depends more on what culture they currently live in than their original culture. And that should be the same culture as you in most circumstances, therefore there shouldn't be a problem.
 

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So I just have to be careful with the Kino cause it might "invade" her personal space. Well I have a way to sneak into that space, since she is my bus mate after all. Anything else I should worry about? Or should I just use my Filipino tactics with her?

(I cause I overdid eye contact it with another Korean once, that other chick now thinks I'm some sort of psycho)
 

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you can overdo kino and eyecontact with any girl mate, culture is generally irrelivant.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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alright thanks, hopefully I can get this one. oh could you check my conversation opener?

First I ride the bus right, if she's there first, I'm gonna sit right next to her and ask her something, like "Hey, your name is(name of chick) right, your using a RAZR right? Do you know how to send mp3's from your computer directly to your fone?(Hey it's the only thing I can think of to open a topic) after that, I can just branch out randomly
 

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Sounds good, what would be better is if you ask her what she thinks of the razr and if she would recomment it. That way your asking her opinion on something and it'll build a stronger connectio nbetween you two in her mind.
 

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Well I already have the razr so I crossed that one out, but I really dont know how to send files from my pc to the razr. So asking her that would not only serve as rapport but it would help me send some of my KISS mp3's to my fone.
 
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