"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cultural Devastation of American Women

The average woman's ideas and emotional unpredicatability on love and marriage

  • Will only get worse as we progress in to the future

    Votes: 5 71.4%

  • will get better as we progress in to the future

    Votes: 2 28.6%
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    7

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Culture in general is being devastated. With women being the most vulnerable to this, it's no surprise that they're collapsing on themselves much more quickly.

There AREN'T a whole lot of women out there fit to be mothers...and some of the ones who THINK they are are furthest from.
 
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It's a confusing, mixed-up time. Society and what's best for it to function have evolved very rapidly in this technological/information age in which different traits have different (for lack of a better term) "survival value" than was the case centuries ago, which is a very short period in terms of the evolution of a species.

I expect it'll get worse for some time (perhaps exceeding the lifetime of everyone here), and eventually get better as people get better "centered". Right now, people are "all over the place," so to speak.
 
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