"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cry 'havoc!' (a realization)

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Ladies and gentlemen, I am an AFC. For those who've read the post on the girlfriend whom I will be breaking up with tomorrow (drugs became an issue) know this. To an embarrassing extent, I am an AFC.

But, the sun also rises. There's gonna be a change in my life. I realize that she's been nothing but abusive lately and I don't deserve that. I'm better and stronger than this.

I'm gonna work on me for a change, rather than work on everyone else.

I wanna thank you guys for talking some sense into me. I needed it and I got it. Thank you.

And now, the self-improvement begins...

`smeckle.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yeah... not really sure what happened there. My cmoputer kinda froze for a minute and then... boom. There were three posts. Sorry to take up board space. haha
 
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