"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cry 'havoc!' (a realization)

smeckle

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Ladies and gentlemen, I am an AFC. For those who've read the post on the girlfriend whom I will be breaking up with tomorrow (drugs became an issue) know this. To an embarrassing extent, I am an AFC.

But, the sun also rises. There's gonna be a change in my life. I realize that she's been nothing but abusive lately and I don't deserve that. I'm better and stronger than this.

I'm gonna work on me for a change, rather than work on everyone else.

I wanna thank you guys for talking some sense into me. I needed it and I got it. Thank you.

And now, the self-improvement begins...

`smeckle.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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smeckle

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yeah... not really sure what happened there. My cmoputer kinda froze for a minute and then... boom. There were three posts. Sorry to take up board space. haha
 
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