"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Crush rejected me for being fat; this happened next:

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...and was I fat indeed!
Two years ago I looked so bad girls would feel sorry for me. So I did manage to get a date...I dunno how..we went dancing, I ran out of breath and went back to the car to get my inhaler..I was so embarrased it was unreal. Her interest (if there was any to begin with) went down the drain and I never heard from her again.
THEN I was determined to make a radical change. I broke contact with almost everybody except family for 2 years and went to pursue that change.
This was me 2 years ago, completely destroyed by my first cardio training ever:


And this is me today:
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So, now back to the dating game. Confidence sky high; I guess this new beginning is going to be awesome.
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well done on your transformation squire. Stay on your grind and keep polishing your product. You will be surprised to discover that some of the skirts that were swerving the old you will start to sing a different tune.

Good job
 
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Awesome dude. You've shown what hard work and determination can accomplish. What were/Are your stats?
 
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Well I don't know exactly cause I was too scared to get up on a scale; last time i did it it was around 330 pounds and the Body Mass Index was in the morbidly obese range...now I weigh 199.6 lbs.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I dont understand how ppl let themselves go like you did. unless there is trauma that eating is trying to bury.

congrats tho
 
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A degree of trauma or challenge is needed to motivate. That’s why I seek challenges as opposed to waiting for challenges to seek me.

Congrats.
 
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