"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Crush rejected me for being fat; this happened next:

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...and was I fat indeed!
Two years ago I looked so bad girls would feel sorry for me. So I did manage to get a date...I dunno how..we went dancing, I ran out of breath and went back to the car to get my inhaler..I was so embarrased it was unreal. Her interest (if there was any to begin with) went down the drain and I never heard from her again.
THEN I was determined to make a radical change. I broke contact with almost everybody except family for 2 years and went to pursue that change.
This was me 2 years ago, completely destroyed by my first cardio training ever:


And this is me today:
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So, now back to the dating game. Confidence sky high; I guess this new beginning is going to be awesome.
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SirBigBell

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Well done on your transformation squire. Stay on your grind and keep polishing your product. You will be surprised to discover that some of the skirts that were swerving the old you will start to sing a different tune.

Good job
 

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Awesome dude. You've shown what hard work and determination can accomplish. What were/Are your stats?
 

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Well I don't know exactly cause I was too scared to get up on a scale; last time i did it it was around 330 pounds and the Body Mass Index was in the morbidly obese range...now I weigh 199.6 lbs.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sazc

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I dont understand how ppl let themselves go like you did. unless there is trauma that eating is trying to bury.

congrats tho
 

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A degree of trauma or challenge is needed to motivate. That’s why I seek challenges as opposed to waiting for challenges to seek me.

Congrats.
 
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