"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Crotch Rot...?! lol
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
phillyb
Don Juan
otherwise use your own judgement!!!
downfallofdisbelief
Don Juan
genious
umm just dont ever use aftershave or cologne, i did that once, and that will be the ONLY time i do that in my lifetime.....ouch
just take a damn shower and use that awesome invention called soap.
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
:crackup: HAHA!!!
I used to use cologne to neutralize swamp arse gasses. Light sprays here and there throughout the day... I loved the aura it set for me(I was AFC in that I didn't care what other people thought of me) I reeked of cheap cologne.
I'd go off at night to the bar and make some new friends. I almost always make sure I hit the showers before goin out. One night I didn't, and I F closed that night as well...
let's say after that drunken ONS I never wore anything down there again... the girl started bobbin on me, it was alright, not the best BJ, but it turned out to be a case of blue balls in the end. ****in retard me didn't rinse before sex, and she almost sandpapered her tongue off.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.