"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Guys need some pointers here

How to be sweet to a girl without looking like doormat...

How to show youre interested in her without looking like a desperate fool..

How to show youre not desperate but at the same time youre serious about her (even though youre really not)..

recently I encounterd this problem...When I act like a super alpha male and super not desperate and challenging guy...Many girls appreciated me but they dont take me seriously they thought im freaking womanizer and just playing with them...And when I act im sweet to a girl and show that im serious they think youre freaking desperate or just sudenly losse their interest when they knew you like them..


ahhhhhh guys help me guide me..How should i balance this...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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To get her into you, demonstrate value. Show her you can teach her a lot.
Look straight in her eyes: "I can tell, just by looking into your eyes that you're such and such... because I'm little like that, or because I have a sister that..." The idea is to build rapport, connection, spark emotion. Nothing builds rapport like psychology stuff.
 
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My own experience has been that girls like me fine when I get my defenses down. The problem is when I become defensive... and defensive can be overdoing the alpha attitude in a subconscious attempt to control rather than seduce the girl.
 
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How to be sweet to a girl without looking like doormat...

When she has earned it.

How to show youre interested in her without looking like a desperate fool..

Same as above, she has to work for it.

How to show youre not desperate but at the same time youre serious about her (even though youre really not)..


Do what I posted above, and she'll know you are not desperate. She has to do something that warrants your affection or interest. Don't start showing either one just because she's 'pretty'.

She can do something small like give you good eye contact (girls flirt with their eyes), or offer to pay for something, give you KINO, maybe she cooks you dinner, or just calls to say hi. See what I'm saying? Don't give your affection away for free, ever.

Many girls appreciated me but they don’t take me seriously they thought im freaking womanizer and just playing with them...

Whatever dude, if a girl calls you a womanizer or player, respond with 'yeah, what's your point'. Show her you don't care what SHE thinks. You will get allot further with this attitude.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Edmond put it nicely.

There's no need to be a clown or pimp. Just simpy be.
 
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Kings_royalty said:
How to be sweet to a girl without looking like doormat...

When she has earned it.

How to show youre interested in her without looking like a desperate fool..

Same as above, she has to work for it.

How to show youre not desperate but at the same time youre serious about her (even though youre really not)..




Guys thanx for the replies...What is the signs that she earns it could you set an example of scenario..and how do alpha males do sweetness that not cheesy?
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