"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Guys need some pointers here

How to be sweet to a girl without looking like doormat...

How to show youre interested in her without looking like a desperate fool..

How to show youre not desperate but at the same time youre serious about her (even though youre really not)..

recently I encounterd this problem...When I act like a super alpha male and super not desperate and challenging guy...Many girls appreciated me but they dont take me seriously they thought im freaking womanizer and just playing with them...And when I act im sweet to a girl and show that im serious they think youre freaking desperate or just sudenly losse their interest when they knew you like them..


ahhhhhh guys help me guide me..How should i balance this...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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To get her into you, demonstrate value. Show her you can teach her a lot.
Look straight in her eyes: "I can tell, just by looking into your eyes that you're such and such... because I'm little like that, or because I have a sister that..." The idea is to build rapport, connection, spark emotion. Nothing builds rapport like psychology stuff.
 
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My own experience has been that girls like me fine when I get my defenses down. The problem is when I become defensive... and defensive can be overdoing the alpha attitude in a subconscious attempt to control rather than seduce the girl.
 
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How to be sweet to a girl without looking like doormat...

When she has earned it.

How to show youre interested in her without looking like a desperate fool..

Same as above, she has to work for it.

How to show youre not desperate but at the same time youre serious about her (even though youre really not)..


Do what I posted above, and she'll know you are not desperate. She has to do something that warrants your affection or interest. Don't start showing either one just because she's 'pretty'.

She can do something small like give you good eye contact (girls flirt with their eyes), or offer to pay for something, give you KINO, maybe she cooks you dinner, or just calls to say hi. See what I'm saying? Don't give your affection away for free, ever.

Many girls appreciated me but they don’t take me seriously they thought im freaking womanizer and just playing with them...

Whatever dude, if a girl calls you a womanizer or player, respond with 'yeah, what's your point'. Show her you don't care what SHE thinks. You will get allot further with this attitude.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Edmond put it nicely.

There's no need to be a clown or pimp. Just simpy be.
 
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Kings_royalty said:
How to be sweet to a girl without looking like doormat...

When she has earned it.

How to show youre interested in her without looking like a desperate fool..

Same as above, she has to work for it.

How to show youre not desperate but at the same time youre serious about her (even though youre really not)..




Guys thanx for the replies...What is the signs that she earns it could you set an example of scenario..and how do alpha males do sweetness that not cheesy?
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