SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
I've joined the cross country running team at my school to get in shape. It's going pretty good, but I would really like to improve my preformance in races. Anybody have any tips on training, schedual, diet, etc?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What's your schedule now?Originally posted by SmoothTalker
I've joined the cross country running team at my school to get in shape. It's going pretty good, but I would really like to improve my preformance in races. Anybody have any tips on training, schedual, diet, etc?
- Plan to run at least 5 miles in the morning time before school, at least 3 of which are at race pace (the other two being faster, of course) usually twice a week.
- After school, you're looking at around 8 more miles, roughly 5 of which approach race pace.
- Oh yeah: if you're not up to snuff, the coach might throw in 5-day/6-day alternating training weeks. (The two-a-day trains not being every day.)
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Take a look at the Olympics, pal. The people who win the distance races are the ones that sprint out to the front of the pack at the start of the race and then stay there throughout. You don't see gold medalists jogging at the start of the race.Originally posted by CaptianMorgan
who the hell uses blocks in a cross country race. sprinting out infront of people and staying there for the whole race is easier said then done and all ur doing is killing ur energy. You actually have to be in good shape to do that and stay up there. Its bad strategy even if u were in good shape. U want to keep a steady pace throughout the whole race with the exceptions of ur kick and maybe the first 100 yards so u dont get stuck behind ppl. Tell me what ur fastest 5k time is Wheelin and then maybe i might consider what u r saying.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Actually quite the opposite. Vinners do not stay in front all the time. They catch up at the last segment very often.Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Take a look at the Olympics, pal. The people who win the distance races are the ones that sprint out to the front of the pack at the start of the race and then stay there throughout. You don't see gold medalists jogging at the start of the race.
BahahahaOriginally posted by Ice Cold
I would not recommend running as a sport. It puts too much stress on the knee joints. As you get older, the knees will get out of shape which will disable you, the fitness level will go down and you will die early.