"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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critique my new routine.

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My schedule doesn't give me that much time to workout tues-thurs (probably around 15 minutes) , so i've been considering this new routine:

monday: squat/ glut-ham

tues or weds: weighted pull ups

weds or thurs: shoulder press

friday:dead/hypers

sat: chest press

sun: d-rows

the workouts tues/thurs/sat would only last 10-15 minutes (about 3-4 sets). the squats and deadlifts days would last around 30-40 minutes. Basically, this is all the exersices I do over a 3 day split spread out over the week.

I have these questions: How much stress do dl's put on the shoulders and middle/ upper back? How far apart should I place my shoulder press/d-rows/w-pullups from the dl.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Whats the advantage of the two day split?

After squats and deads, I don't have much energy left. By spreading the exersices out, I would be fresher for each exersice and thus more likely to pull a personal best. At least that is my rationale for the split posted above.

For a two day split, I came up with

day 1:
deads, w-pullups, hypers, d-rows

day 2:
squats, chest press, glut-hams, shoulder press.
 

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Looking a lot better.

Do 2 days so you can go in, give it your all for those two days, and have more time to recover, which is especially needed on a tight schedule
 

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I also do grappling 4x a week monday-friday. Would that have an affect on my strength training routine?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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even more reason to do a 2xday a week.

Any form of other training will cut into your recovery and hinder your strength if it's strenuous enough. however, while I don't know what grappling involves, I'd say your strength training would benefit it.. try it and see.

just remember, if you want to be a grappler, just do grappling. if you want to be a bodybuilder, just do bodybuilding. if you want to be a powerlifter, just do powerlifting..

otherwise you're a jack of all trades, but master of none
 

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grappling (bjj) involves a lot of muscular endurance, so strength training definatly helps.

I want to be primarily a grappler, but I also want to weigh 150-170 eventually.
 

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never mind on the upper body stuff on friday. My arms have not recoved from my 4 days of grappling. I forgot to take into account grappling takes a lot our of my arms. I"ll have to do upperbody atleast on sunday-tuesdays so my arms have time to recover.
 
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