"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i am me

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its cool man but i think ur gonna get some heat for askin this
 

crossboss

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good

What would be better would be better is "Not good looking".
 

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um i know the other two said it good, but i think it needs work. example, maybe smile in a picture or two, don't take yourself so seriously, and relax instead of trying too hard to be a hard a$$.:cool:

i feel like im watching some lame wanna be model.
 

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my personal opinion is it's not bad....but you need more pics of girls and female friends....too many guy friends make you give somewhat of a semi-gay vibe
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KingBeef said:
my personal opinion is it's not bad....but you need more pics of girls and female friends....too many guy friends make you give somewhat of a semi-gay vibe

I agree, get more pics of yourself with girls hanging out at the beach, bar, or club. Get rid of the pretty sunset and the music, you want something a little more edgy. And the zack morris thing, get rid of that quickly. The waterfall pic, MUST go. The pic in the black shirt was cool.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Buddy who started this thread goes to a university where myspace isn't really used as much as Facebook is... He shouldn't stress myspace... but yeah... i agree, some of the pics look gay...
 

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Did yall see the picture in the comment section posted by " PinkieMcQUeen" ? ... I think she hit it dead on ....

- Check it
 

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"God I'm beautiful"?!?!?!? Yikes

And the hard music/soft photography isn't a good mix.
 

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Too much specific info about yourself. Sounds like your questions that you answer are the typical "interview" types. Leaves no mystery.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hey, just be yourself, and if personality comes out to be gay on profile then just accept it.
 

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and if i happen to meet you dasani, i'll just kick ur ass and accept it.
 

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AlexTheGreat said:
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what about mine? www.myspace.com/trp_alex

i chose the "simple and slick" profile, tell me what you think

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Looks good, a little plain though. Throw a funky background into it, like flames or some sort of abstract art. You can find some really good wallpapers at deviantart.com.

I like what you wrote in the 'who I would like to meet' section. It doesn't give everything away; it makes the reader want to know more...nice.

The pics look good, but get rid of one of the close up shots; one close up pic is enough.

I give you a B+, lol.
 

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holy ****, you guys are giving solid tips! I'm loving this advice...
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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