That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Lostsoul85 said:You guys i am in the lower end of the testosterone range(280-310) which may explain why i don't look manly and less than my 160 weight in those photos.However my doctor says its safer to not put me on HRT so i feel like i am kind of stuck..I don't have erection problems or anything like that,however i have no energy to workout.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
BS. I used to wear gray contacts, had two pierced ears and considered metrosexual, and girls loved it...attractive ones too. I'd say at that time more attractive girls liked me than they do now.omega05 said:post new pictures and take out the colored contacts. women do that, not men
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
and have you tried without the colored contacts?bish0p said:BS. I used to wear gray contacts, had two pierced ears and considered metrosexual, and girls loved it...attractive ones too. I'd say at that time more attractive girls liked me than they do now.
I always had girls hitting on me in the clubs...especially when I was muscular and I'm only 5'8".
A few idiots thought I was gay, but I didn't give a damn because I was still swimming in *****.