Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Lostsoul85 said:You guys i am in the lower end of the testosterone range(280-310) which may explain why i don't look manly and less than my 160 weight in those photos.However my doctor says its safer to not put me on HRT so i feel like i am kind of stuck..I don't have erection problems or anything like that,however i have no energy to workout.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
BS. I used to wear gray contacts, had two pierced ears and considered metrosexual, and girls loved it...attractive ones too. I'd say at that time more attractive girls liked me than they do now.omega05 said:post new pictures and take out the colored contacts. women do that, not men
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
and have you tried without the colored contacts?bish0p said:BS. I used to wear gray contacts, had two pierced ears and considered metrosexual, and girls loved it...attractive ones too. I'd say at that time more attractive girls liked me than they do now.
I always had girls hitting on me in the clubs...especially when I was muscular and I'm only 5'8".
A few idiots thought I was gay, but I didn't give a damn because I was still swimming in *****.