Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Lostsoul85 said:You guys i am in the lower end of the testosterone range(280-310) which may explain why i don't look manly and less than my 160 weight in those photos.However my doctor says its safer to not put me on HRT so i feel like i am kind of stuck..I don't have erection problems or anything like that,however i have no energy to workout.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
BS. I used to wear gray contacts, had two pierced ears and considered metrosexual, and girls loved it...attractive ones too. I'd say at that time more attractive girls liked me than they do now.omega05 said:post new pictures and take out the colored contacts. women do that, not men
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
and have you tried without the colored contacts?bish0p said:BS. I used to wear gray contacts, had two pierced ears and considered metrosexual, and girls loved it...attractive ones too. I'd say at that time more attractive girls liked me than they do now.
I always had girls hitting on me in the clubs...especially when I was muscular and I'm only 5'8".
A few idiots thought I was gay, but I didn't give a damn because I was still swimming in *****.