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Critique my cutting diet

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MODIFIED CUTTING Kcal Protein Fat Carbs
MEAL A
4 eggs 300 25.2 20 2.4
2 Tbsp Olive Oil 270 0 30 0
Protein Shake 118 24.6 2 2.1
50g Peanut Butter 310 14.3 24.3 6.3

MEAL B
100g Chicken 105 21 3 0
100g Rice 350 6.9 2.8 74
100g Chicken 105 21 3 0

MEAL C
100g Chicken 105 21 3 0
2 Tbsp Olive Oil 270 0 30 0

MEAL D
100g Chicken 105 21 3 0
Vegetables


MEAL E
2 Tbsp Olive Oil 270 0 30 0
1 can of tuna 120 26 1 0


Totals 2428 181 152.1 84.8
Kcal Protein Fats Carbs


Basically I want to get rid of highly insulinogenic food such as milk and reduce whey protein consumption. I have been on a sort of GOMAD diet for 10 weeks and now my aim is to reduce blood sugar levels, insulin has a negative effect on testosterone which is bad for the manly arts.

I will then add in HIIT and hopefully together it will help me gain some definition. I haven't got a lot of fat to lose (maybe 5-8lbs) therefore its more a case of cleaning up the diet and not spiking insulin.

Any comments, critique or feedback? By the way I am eating on the cheap here so organic grass fed beef sirloin steak is a bit unrealistic.
 

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what is your height and weight?
 

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Hey EFFORT,

I am 180lb at 6ft 2.

Still skinny, I know. This is just repair work and a little bit of light trimming after 10 weeks of bulking.
 

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shadowfox said:
Hey EFFORT,

I am 180lb at 6ft 2.

Still skinny, I know. This is just repair work and a little bit of light trimming after 10 weeks of bulking.

What would you estimate your body fat? Can you see any ab outline in a relaxed position? Do you have a belly?
 

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EFFORT said:
What would you estimate your body fat? Can you see any ab outline in a relaxed position? Do you have a belly?
Going by this website: http://forums.johnstonefitness.com/showthread.php?t=31392

I most closely resemble the two tattooed men with the bodyfat percentage at 12-13.9%.

I dont really have much of a belly unless I have a large meal or something that bloats me up. My abs are covered up at the moment.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'd just add another 100g of chicken to meal C and meal D and another can of tuna to meal E. Have meal B post workout.

Keep up with your lifting routine. Add in five 30min cardio sessions a week on the elliptical with your heart rate in the 150-160bmp range.

Fat should come off nicely, give it 8-12weeks
 

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Either your total calories are off or your macros

because with what you posted, the total result is about 2100 calories, not 2428
 

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A couple of things.

When cutting you only need 1-1.2x bodyweight in protein. You are getting almost 800 calories you don't need from unnecessary protein. You could go to 1.5x, but you aren't going to see much benefit.

I think it's a good clean diet, but I think you may be disappointed at the fat loss results to it. Mine looked similar when I was at 10%. It didn't happen for me with that style diet. Dropping under 10% for most people calls for a drastic means. This diet is not so...

-I'd shoot for about 30-35g protein per meal, if you are going to proceed with this diet.
-Drop the banana and milk... you don't need it

At 10%, to drop under and gain LBM also calls for intuitive dieting. Rebound approach is the only way I have found to do it. Diet 4 days, rebound mass 3 days, repeat.

On this course, you won't need a re-feed. Maybe a medium sized cheat meal once per week,

I’d like to know about your training routine. Much of your diet should revolve around your training style/volume/etc.

Like I said. That's a clean diet. Good for someone trying to go from 18 % to 12%, I don't think it would work for you, but that's just my opinion and from experience.
 
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