"You should really do something about that!"
Yes, some girl actually told me this, truth be told she really caught me by surprise, but let me give you the background for this first.
During the last semester at school I've developed an interest in a female friend of mine. This girl also have a good friend who I'm in the "friend zone" with, something I really don't complain about since she's not my type.
The three of us have always had a good relationship, but during the last couple of months I've started to invest a bit more time with the one I just had as an aquaintance. During exam period we've spent not few hours talking, joking and studying together. All the time dodging LJBF pitfalls and promoting myself.
However, the story is mainly about Her friend.
During the exam period me and Her meet at school frequently, however her stressed friend is also found alongside Her and it's obviously that she doesn't appreciate my company and makes it clear to Her that "we need to go and study now" + giving me the Evil Eye
Here the other day I figured I should try to clam her a bit, so I send her an SMS wishing her good luck on the exams that are to come. Next day I run into Her at school and we spend a few moments talking before she's called in for the exam. The only ones left in the hallway are now me and ms Stressed. I walk over to her and am about to initiate a conversation when she all of a sudden bursts out:
"You're not planning to be staying here (in the hallway)? You're getting really pushy. Everytime there's a stress-situation you're there. I really think you should do something about that attitude".
This comes from the girl that I one month later, considered to be one of my good friends, needless to say I was a bit shocked and told her "Sure, I'll go study somewhere else. Good luck on your exam".
Now, the thought I was left with was "ungrateful b1tch" so she's on my ignore for the couple of months. However, in the nice light of Being in the Past I guess I could have given her a less AFC-response.
What I'm wondering about is if I should just kill the friendship and avoid her? This could be an issue in case she now starts to hang around with the girl I'm interested in all the time.
What I'm leaning towards is to just ignore her and go on with my business, so what if she doesn't speak highly of me to the girl I'm interested in?
And in general, how good "friend" should I be with the friends of the girl I'm interested in? I'm currently going for "just enough to let her know that I have other options, but nothing too serious".
- Angelus
Yes, some girl actually told me this, truth be told she really caught me by surprise, but let me give you the background for this first.
During the last semester at school I've developed an interest in a female friend of mine. This girl also have a good friend who I'm in the "friend zone" with, something I really don't complain about since she's not my type.
The three of us have always had a good relationship, but during the last couple of months I've started to invest a bit more time with the one I just had as an aquaintance. During exam period we've spent not few hours talking, joking and studying together. All the time dodging LJBF pitfalls and promoting myself.
However, the story is mainly about Her friend.
During the exam period me and Her meet at school frequently, however her stressed friend is also found alongside Her and it's obviously that she doesn't appreciate my company and makes it clear to Her that "we need to go and study now" + giving me the Evil Eye
Here the other day I figured I should try to clam her a bit, so I send her an SMS wishing her good luck on the exams that are to come. Next day I run into Her at school and we spend a few moments talking before she's called in for the exam. The only ones left in the hallway are now me and ms Stressed. I walk over to her and am about to initiate a conversation when she all of a sudden bursts out:
"You're not planning to be staying here (in the hallway)? You're getting really pushy. Everytime there's a stress-situation you're there. I really think you should do something about that attitude".
This comes from the girl that I one month later, considered to be one of my good friends, needless to say I was a bit shocked and told her "Sure, I'll go study somewhere else. Good luck on your exam".
Now, the thought I was left with was "ungrateful b1tch" so she's on my ignore for the couple of months. However, in the nice light of Being in the Past I guess I could have given her a less AFC-response.
What I'm wondering about is if I should just kill the friendship and avoid her? This could be an issue in case she now starts to hang around with the girl I'm interested in all the time.
What I'm leaning towards is to just ignore her and go on with my business, so what if she doesn't speak highly of me to the girl I'm interested in?
And in general, how good "friend" should I be with the friends of the girl I'm interested in? I'm currently going for "just enough to let her know that I have other options, but nothing too serious".
- Angelus