"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guaranteed bigger as hole then your ex!
If your looking for someone who always agrees with you and gives up his hobbys for you, then you found him.

When im not an ashole Im studying what I love and when im not stuyding im practicing what i study with my friends.

If you take longer time to put your makeup on then it takes for me to eat breakfast then im not interested. Im looking for some that not only have a beautiful face, but also a brain..that is working.

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What do you think? How does it come off?
What needs to re-formulated, added, deleted?
Im thinking of showing who I am a bit more with pictures then with words.

(English is not my native language, so the formulations might be a bit of)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You really need to correct your spelling, especially considering you've mentioned 'studying' in your profile..
 
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Disclaimer: This is an honest opinion of the person described by this profile and what I would think if I came across it. It is NOT my opinion of the person who wrote it.

Honestly? You sound f****g retarded.

First you claim the be the biggest A-hole since their ex and then you go on to say you'll agree with everything they say and give your hobbies up for them? WTF?

What is it you love to study? Gay sex?

If you are looking for someone with a brain you are definitely over-reaching with this profile.
 
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1. Spelling
2. Drop the facade so that your message is consistent. You claim to be a jerk and then claim to be a chump. Just cut the BS and be natural.
 
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I had a really honest and normal profile about myself and no responses. I read that if it doesnt stand out/shock/is fun, then the reader wont get interested, then its just as all the others.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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djisnice said:
Guaranteed bigger as hole then your ex!
If your looking for someone who always agrees with you and gives up his hobbys for you, then you found him.

When im not an ashole Im studying what I love and when im not stuyding im practicing what i study with my friends.

If you take longer time to put your makeup on then it takes for me to eat breakfast then im not interested. Im looking for some that not only have a beautiful face, but also a brain..that is working.
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ok then tell me what stands out is shocking (except the whole thing and not in a good way) or fun about that? because all that sounds like is a retarded 15 year old trying to be cool. seriously have you even read the bible or book of pook or anything? ****Y AND FUNNY not a$$hole and b!tch.
 
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First it gets attention and then confusion. Then some info of what I do, but still not giving it all away. And finally disqualification. (And not to long...letting the pictures do the rest of the job)

seriously have you even read the bible or book of pook or anything? ****Y AND FUNNY not a$$hole and b!tch.
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What does pook have to do with ****y and funny?
 
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djisnice said:
Guaranteed bigger as hole then your ex!
If your looking for someone who always agrees with you and gives up his hobbys for you, then you found him.

When im not an ashole Im studying what I love and when im not stuyding im practicing what i study with my friends.

If you take longer time to put your makeup on then it takes for me to eat breakfast then im not interested. Im looking for some that not only have a beautiful face, but also a brain..that is working.

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What do you think? How does it come off?
What needs to re-formulated, added, deleted?
Im thinking of showing who I am a bit more with pictures then with words.

(English is not my native language, so the formulations might be a bit of)
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What nationality are you?
What country do you currently reside in?
What nationality girl are you seeking?
 
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Copy and paste the SAME email to 100 women:

"Gorgeous photos! I'd like you to join me for a drink this Friday night at ____ pm at ______ on ______ street.

Will you meet me there?"

You do this long enough, you'll get responses.
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This sounds pretty cold and unpersonal. Maybe even a bit like a maniac. Or?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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you ask for our advice, and you get advice from everyone let alone from one of the biggest posters on here who is a Mod and you question it? lol. If what you are doing isn't working then why not try it? it is only POF man what have you got to lose?
 
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agree, texting back and forth is utter time wasting bs..i have been waiting until 2nd message, but first sounds good as well...
 
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