"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Criticism

ogre

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criticism is a form of abuse.

you can help a person by identifying his problem(s) and offering suggestions on how to correct them. that's not criticizing, and that's not putting someone down.

On the other hand, telling someone he is a lazy good-for-nothing loser, whimp or crybaby or something to that effect is not what I would consider helpful, even if their is some validity to his claim. In spite of what the teller might want you to believe, putting you down it is not for your benefit but rather to feed his own petty ego.

so thank your critic for his concern, and then tell him to go f*ck himself.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tatlongxxx

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guyz! got a problem

i change my mind being with this GF of mine. This morning i was checking her mailbox to fix her file attachment and accidentally i click the deleted items. You know what? i saw her email to his lover. see below


Vincent,

So how's my friend? If your wondering its me maan, I use to think that you never really wanna hear from me and that you hated me so much. I make a journal about you but I burned it afraid that someone else might read it. Theres so much I want to tell you but I know that I'll never really see you again. Here I am a thousand miles away from you thinking of you all the time, blaming my self why did I hurt you that way, and thing is the tragedy I put you to is irreversible. If you must I know I REALLY HATE MYSELF. Wondering when can I se you again but eventually that will never happen, as much as I wanted to be with you, i cant, Im so foolish for feeling this. Your still my confident, arent you? I miss you

What do you think of this bull****?
my GF is a B i t c h!
 
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