"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Criticism

ogre

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criticism is a form of abuse.

you can help a person by identifying his problem(s) and offering suggestions on how to correct them. that's not criticizing, and that's not putting someone down.

On the other hand, telling someone he is a lazy good-for-nothing loser, whimp or crybaby or something to that effect is not what I would consider helpful, even if their is some validity to his claim. In spite of what the teller might want you to believe, putting you down it is not for your benefit but rather to feed his own petty ego.

so thank your critic for his concern, and then tell him to go f*ck himself.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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tatlongxxx

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guyz! got a problem

i change my mind being with this GF of mine. This morning i was checking her mailbox to fix her file attachment and accidentally i click the deleted items. You know what? i saw her email to his lover. see below


Vincent,

So how's my friend? If your wondering its me maan, I use to think that you never really wanna hear from me and that you hated me so much. I make a journal about you but I burned it afraid that someone else might read it. Theres so much I want to tell you but I know that I'll never really see you again. Here I am a thousand miles away from you thinking of you all the time, blaming my self why did I hurt you that way, and thing is the tragedy I put you to is irreversible. If you must I know I REALLY HATE MYSELF. Wondering when can I se you again but eventually that will never happen, as much as I wanted to be with you, i cant, Im so foolish for feeling this. Your still my confident, arent you? I miss you

What do you think of this bull****?
my GF is a B i t c h!
 
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