"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Criticism

ogre

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criticism is a form of abuse.

you can help a person by identifying his problem(s) and offering suggestions on how to correct them. that's not criticizing, and that's not putting someone down.

On the other hand, telling someone he is a lazy good-for-nothing loser, whimp or crybaby or something to that effect is not what I would consider helpful, even if their is some validity to his claim. In spite of what the teller might want you to believe, putting you down it is not for your benefit but rather to feed his own petty ego.

so thank your critic for his concern, and then tell him to go f*ck himself.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tatlongxxx

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guyz! got a problem

i change my mind being with this GF of mine. This morning i was checking her mailbox to fix her file attachment and accidentally i click the deleted items. You know what? i saw her email to his lover. see below


Vincent,

So how's my friend? If your wondering its me maan, I use to think that you never really wanna hear from me and that you hated me so much. I make a journal about you but I burned it afraid that someone else might read it. Theres so much I want to tell you but I know that I'll never really see you again. Here I am a thousand miles away from you thinking of you all the time, blaming my self why did I hurt you that way, and thing is the tragedy I put you to is irreversible. If you must I know I REALLY HATE MYSELF. Wondering when can I se you again but eventually that will never happen, as much as I wanted to be with you, i cant, Im so foolish for feeling this. Your still my confident, arent you? I miss you

What do you think of this bull****?
my GF is a B i t c h!
 
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