"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Crippling anxiety.

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Hi all new user here.I'm currently going through the book of pook.Infact the Pook is the reason I posted here.I have a problem, I will seek psychologists advice too but was wondering if anyone here was beyond nervous and felt the world was closing in.I mean this anxious when talking to a women who i am attracted to.I can talk if i have no intention to get a number but the second i decide I want one I end up freezing up and getting incredibly anxious.

If so has anyone overcome something like this hear any advice?I've heard of the 3 second rule but i end up not asking every time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi all new user here.I'm currently going through the book of pook.Infact the Pook is the reason I posted here.I have a problem, I will seek psychologists advice too but was wondering if anyone here was beyond nervous and felt the world was closing in.I mean this anxious when talking to a women who i am attracted to.I can talk if i have no intention to get a number but the second i decide I want one I end up freezing up and getting incredibly anxious.

If so has anyone overcome something like this hear any advice?I've heard of the 3 second rule but i end up not asking every time.
" You can give me your # if you want"
 

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If so has anyone overcome something like this hear any advice?I've heard of the 3 second rule but i end up not asking every time.
Read the game. I enjoy the story. After read the mystery method. Check rsd. Watch the julien manifesto. Watch play with fire. Check john Anthony aka jmulv. Dude is a savage. 1010 kill count including 2 trannys lmfao. Nit saying do that. I am saying that you can go full retard. Don't.
 

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Well, the advice that helped me overcome it is disappointingly simple, Nike got it right, just do it. It feels like hell, the first few times.

You are a slave to your emotions, but emotions cannot destroy you or actually harm you and although they're there for evolutionary reasons, they aren't rational or even helpful many times. With this knowledge you have a choice, you can choose to obey or disobey your emotions. The anxiety will intensify if you choose to disobey it's message, but it will weaken for every time that you do and nothing bad actually comes of it.

Repeated exposure to your fears dulls your fears until doing it is as harmless as a walk in the park. Don't be a slave to your irrational emotions, choose differently, it is all in your power to do.
 
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