"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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creepy adding neighbor to facebook?

blackwolf

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not saying i'm going to do it but i am curious if this is a creepy thing to do? i know if a girl added me saying she was my neighbor i would be more than happy to accept!

but anyway, the landlord of where im staying lives literally behind my house, you can see the house from looking out my window... anyway they have a pretty hot daughter but shes six years younger than me and we've only said hi once or twice. i found her facebook cause a couple people i know, know her. just out of curiousity.. would it be creepy to add her saying "hey neighbor!"

lol. im not going to though cause even if she did it would probably make things weird. ive spoken to her dad many times, had a few chats. but not lately.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lorekeeper

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I never add anyone to facebook, they always add me.

the most i do is msg them "hey, are you so-and-so?" most of the time with a joke, they then add me.
 

DJDamage

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Don't do it.

If you don't have the balls to just go up to her, chat her up and gauge her IOI's to see if she is interested then you won't be able to do so from just adding her on facebook.

Adding a girl you barley know is a behaviour which she might interpret as borderline stalking.
 

Kailex

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Landlord's daughter.

I hope you're already looking for a new apartment if you are going to pursue this.

Forget whether it's creepy or not to add her on Facebook, she's your LANDLORD'S DAUGHTER. I wouldn't date someone in my same apartment complex, let alone be a tenant at a place whose owner's daughter's ass I'm tapping.

Lose-Lose situation.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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