"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Creeping out a girl

Vercingetorix777

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Hi. I ran into this girl the other night with high interest. She was in one of my classes last semester. Lokking back I should've asked her out then. Do you think she'd be creeped out if i just run into her after my class Tuesday? Her class is like 40 feet away and let's out at the same time. I don't know if she's seen me before there though I've seen her myself.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BLUEox117

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Originally posted by Vercingetorix777
Hi. I ran into this girl the other night with high interest. She was in one of my classes last semester. Lokking back I should've asked her out then. Do you think she'd be creeped out if i just run into her after my class Tuesday? Her class is like 40 feet away and let's out at the same time. I don't know if she's seen me before there though I've seen her myself.
vercingetorix
when will you transform into caesar,
be your own man and start doing things, telll us it worked, instead of asking us !
 

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Originally posted by Vercingetorix777
Hi. I ran into this girl the other night with high interest. She was in one of my classes last semester. Lokking back I should've asked her out then. Do you think she'd be creeped out if i just run into her after my class Tuesday? Her class is like 40 feet away and let's out at the same time. I don't know if she's seen me before there though I've seen her myself.
SHe might get upset if you just run into, I mean you'll probably knock her over lol;)
 
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