"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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creeper move or not?

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I live in Texas and spring break is going on. I was driving by the beach and 2 girls were taking pictures of each other in bikinis next to a tree so i drive really slow and videotape it on my phone for like 7 seconds as i drive past. The girls were solid 9s so i drive back and decide to get out of my car and ask them if they needed me to use their phone to take double shots of them together. They say they dont need the help. The one girl says to me "is that your black mustang over there" --I reply back with yes, then she asks me if i was videotaping them when i drove past. I deny it and she says im lying. I tell them both that they are beautiful and ask where they are from. They said thanks for the compliment and they say they are from Massachusetts. I was gonna ask for there numbers but decided not to. I tell them ill let them do there thing then i walk away.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When you say "videotape" do you mean you just got out your iPhone? Or do you seriously have like a camcorder. Because that is hilarious.

Regardless, yes. This is definitely creepy and I recommend you don't do it again unless you want to eventually have a meeting with the police.
 

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You should've admitted you were recording them. You shouldn't have told them they were beautiful. You should've offered them a ride. You should've gotten drinks with them. Next time do exactly that.

You didn't maintain frame by denying
You complimented them unneccessarily
You passed up an opportunity

There's your breakdown
 

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Yes it was a creepy move.

" Yeah I thought you guys might be some supermodels I hadn't heard of and I could sell the footage to TMZ."
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I live in Texas and spring break is going on. I was driving by the beach and 2 girls were taking pictures of each other in bikinis next to a tree so i drive really slow and videotape it on my phone for like 7 seconds as i drive past. The girls were solid 9s so i drive back and decide to get out of my car and ask them if they needed me to use their phone to take double shots of them together. They say they dont need the help. The one girl says to me "is that your black mustang over there" --I reply back with yes, then she asks me if i was videotaping them when i drove past. I deny it and she says im lying. I tell them both that they are beautiful and ask where they are from. They said thanks for the compliment and they say they are from Massachusetts. I was gonna ask for there numbers but decided not to. I tell them ill let them do there thing then i walk away.
You should have asked for the number if you were interested, since you already did the hard part by approaching them. What have you got to lose?

As for taking videos of women whilst driving past slowly - I think that's probably not such a good idea.
 

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You should have flipped out a PI license and asked them if they just saw 'the fight between those 2 girls on the street'. :D
 

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Yes, it's creepy. But I think your nature is just to be a creeper. Aren't you the guy asking about cat-calling from the street? I mean at this point just own it and roll with it. I picture you looking like Vanilla Ice or something. If you're going to do that you have to do it all the way. When they asked you if you were taping them you should have said hell yeah I was. You kinda have to go with over the top confidence to make that work.
 
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