"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Creative Ways to Ask A Girl to Prom

rickypilkingtun

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I am new to the forums but have been reading up on becoming a DJ. There is a girl that I want to ask to prom, I am pretty sure that she will say yes, but I was wondering if the DJ's out there could throw out a couple creative suggestions on how to ask, either romantic or fun.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJ1234

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All of my friends who did something romantic to ask a girl to prom (which btw...I think is stupid) did something like....
fill her whole room with ballons that say will you go to prom with me?...
Another one wrote Will you go to prom with me? (name) very large infront of the whole school so everyone could see...
Lastly, another one rapped himself in a present and popped out and supprised her will you go to prom with me?
 

rickypilkingtun

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I like the present one, but where did he get the stuff to pull it off and for the balloon thing did he write his name on the balloons also so the girl knew who?
 

BluEyes

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They all sound like AFCs.

Just ask her... If she likes you, she shouldn't need convincing, or for you to impress her.

How about middle of a convo:

Her: "stop teasing meee"
You: "If you come to prom with me I won't tease you until tomorrow"

or

You: "Hey, you bought a sexy dress for prom yet??"
Her: "Why?" [worst case scenario]
You: "Because i don't wanna be embarrased when you come with me"

be cool, be smart, play it like she already wants to go with you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kwello

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You don't have to be an AFC to do something special for a girl now and then... part of being a DJ is knowing when to show that you care.
 

rickypilkingtun

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blueyes is damn smooth, only a real DJ could drop a line like that. I might actually just do what he suggested.
 

comic_relief

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BluEyes said:
How about middle of a convo:

Her: "stop teasing meee"
You: "If you come to prom with me I won't tease you until tomorrow"

be cool, be smart, play it like she already wants to go with you.
I have used the first one in a bit different way and it works.

Her: "Stop teasing me."
Me: "Alright, only if I can kidnap you on Tuesday night for some fun and adventure ;)"
Her: "Alright, so you promise to stop making fun of me?"
Me: "Just for today :p "

Yeah, I don't do anything creative unless I am in a relationship with the girl. Not very often.

comic_relief
 
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