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Creative Ways to Ask A Girl to Prom

rickypilkingtun

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I am new to the forums but have been reading up on becoming a DJ. There is a girl that I want to ask to prom, I am pretty sure that she will say yes, but I was wondering if the DJ's out there could throw out a couple creative suggestions on how to ask, either romantic or fun.
 

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All of my friends who did something romantic to ask a girl to prom (which btw...I think is stupid) did something like....
fill her whole room with ballons that say will you go to prom with me?...
Another one wrote Will you go to prom with me? (name) very large infront of the whole school so everyone could see...
Lastly, another one rapped himself in a present and popped out and supprised her will you go to prom with me?
 

rickypilkingtun

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I like the present one, but where did he get the stuff to pull it off and for the balloon thing did he write his name on the balloons also so the girl knew who?
 

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They all sound like AFCs.

Just ask her... If she likes you, she shouldn't need convincing, or for you to impress her.

How about middle of a convo:

Her: "stop teasing meee"
You: "If you come to prom with me I won't tease you until tomorrow"

or

You: "Hey, you bought a sexy dress for prom yet??"
Her: "Why?" [worst case scenario]
You: "Because i don't wanna be embarrased when you come with me"

be cool, be smart, play it like she already wants to go with you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You don't have to be an AFC to do something special for a girl now and then... part of being a DJ is knowing when to show that you care.
 

rickypilkingtun

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blueyes is damn smooth, only a real DJ could drop a line like that. I might actually just do what he suggested.
 

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BluEyes said:
How about middle of a convo:

Her: "stop teasing meee"
You: "If you come to prom with me I won't tease you until tomorrow"

be cool, be smart, play it like she already wants to go with you.
I have used the first one in a bit different way and it works.

Her: "Stop teasing me."
Me: "Alright, only if I can kidnap you on Tuesday night for some fun and adventure ;)"
Her: "Alright, so you promise to stop making fun of me?"
Me: "Just for today :p "

Yeah, I don't do anything creative unless I am in a relationship with the girl. Not very often.

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