"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Creative ways to ask a girl to prom (DONT TROLL)

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Now before about 5 of you troll this, post hear me out. Yes, I know this is typically an AFC thing to do. However, if it's not cliche it works pretty well.

This girl would definitely say yes if I asked her, but she told her friends she wants to be asked in a cute, creative way like all the other girls at our school have been. Now I know most of you will tell me to do the usual "don't do anything special just tell her she is going with you". However, I don't want to disappoint her. She's human too, she might as well be happy and be able to brag to her friends. Hell if I do something completely original and amazing then that'll help me much more in the long run than simply disappointing her by simply having a conversation and telling her she's going with me.

So anyways what are some creative ideas of how to ask a girl to prom that aren't really, really cliche?

I've used the search function, haven't found anything that is at all helpful or not overly cliche.



Also I'm friends with her best friend, so she'll be able to assist if need be.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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First, go to the grocery store and pick out the most expensive piece of raw salmon.

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Well i'll be eagerly anticipating the ending Amazing whenever you formulate it.
 

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Step two:

Obtain a full gorilla suit, and a 7.5 lb dumbell


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Why don't you come up with something on your own? I'm sure you'd feel better about it than if you used something that random guys on an internet forum posted. Anyway, if you want something to get you started, I will be posting about how I asked my date (today actually) in my FR thread. It seems like where I live is similar to your area in that guys ask girls in cute, creative ways.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Buy some flowers (or if your cheap like me pick them from you yard), take her to some place special, like the beach, and then ask her and give her the flowers. This is a good way to do it, you can keep your self respect and she will like it
 

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Amazing said:
Step two:

Obtain a full gorilla suit, and a 7.5 lb dumbell


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Lmaooo :crackup:
 

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sage,

I have come up with some ideas, but theyre not really as terrific as some what i'm hoping for. Anyways a lot of people have much more experience and have seen a lot more things than I have which is why i'm using this forum. Yes, I could wait until an idea forms in my frontal lobe, but prom is fast approaching and I want to do something unique and fun.
 

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Buy some sweedish fish (or use that 7lb salmon if you like) and then inside of the bag place a note that says "Of all the fish in the sea, would you go to prom with me?"
Leave the bag somewhere where she'll find it, like in her locker or on top of her desk. After she finds it, approach her a little later, like the next day/a few hours etc. and then say "Did you like your fish?"

Hmmm...sweedish fishhh

also, wtf are you talking about....i don't think any of us are trolls ;o
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol just throw her a ball and when she catches it say, "Gee, you really are a great catch. How 'bout that prom ey?" and proceed to produce helium filled balloons that she can tie to her bag as to get the attention she desires all day.
 
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